You’re Beautiful.

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In my eyes, Flea is beautiful. She has eyes that sparkle when she finds something funny, which is roughly every ten seconds. She has hair that's a thousand different shades of blonde, with a fringe bleached by days in the sun. She's getting taller and stronger every day, but still retains some of that squishy quality that little kids have. "You're gorgeous," I tell her, a dozen times a day. "I know," she replies. Her confidence in her own attractiveness is something I can only marvel … [Read more...]

So you’re a racist. Let’s talk about that.

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I love Twitter. It's usually the first thing I look at when I arrive at my desk in a morning, and one of the last things I look at before closing the laptop in the evening. But during any sort of controversial or tragic news story, Twitter becomes one, giant pain in the neck. What's the biggest pain? It's not the we-haven't-noticed-people-are-dying-we're-just-using-the-hashtag-to-sell-shoes Tweets. It's not even the Britain-is-broken-surely-it's-time-to-get-rid-of-Islam … [Read more...]

Do we invade our children’s privacy too much?

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As parents and writers, we are raising the first generation of people who could see their entire lives recorded online. With the rise of Facebook, parent blogs, Twitter and a thousand other websites, our children's lives are mapped online virtually from the moment of conception, in some cases. There's the scan photo on Facebook, the cute video announcing the baby's sex via cakes or balloons, the live-Tweeting of the birth, the toilet training stories, first day at school, and it goes on and … [Read more...]

Why I’m over Candy Crush

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Apparently, Candy Crush is the most popular game on Facebook, with 9.7m people playing the game each day. I'm not surprised - I keep seeing mentions among bloggers of the game, and every time I log into Facebook, I'm accosted by half a dozen updates from friends who are inviting me to play. So, for a couple of weeks, I added the game, and played. I can see what people like about Candy Crush. It's cute, and simple to understand, and accessible. It's social, too - you can gloat as you pass … [Read more...]

Why not say it with a GIF?

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If a picture speaks a thousand words, then a GIF speaks - well, probably a bit more than a thousand. A thousand and two, at least. If you're a Tumblr user (check out the Tots100's guide to Tumblr for beginners if you're not!) then you'll be familiar with GIFs - animated images that are used to express a quick thought or capture a memorable moment. They're ALL over the Internet. Approximately 50% of GIFs feature cats. Or people falling over. Like this one, which is never NOT funny to me: … [Read more...]

Being Bitch-Slapped by Love

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I've been thinking about love lately. As you do. Specifically I've been thinking about why so many women get sucked into the notion that True Love - the sort with capital letters and everything - should be hard work. That the more tears are shed, and sleepless nights wasted, the better. Should love hurt? If we look at books and movies and TV, it's not a sunny outlook. Love's a bitch, isn't it? And usually, the ones being bitch-slapped by Love are women. Take Bella and Edward. Or … [Read more...]

What’s it like to be a single parent?

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I was reading this post over at Not Supermum yesterday about the differences between single parenting and married/partnered-up parenting, and it got me thinking. I've always said on this blog that single parenting isn't a competition. I'm not getting into a stupid "my life is harder than your life" debate - because probably, it's not true. I know there are plenty of families out there, of all shapes and sizes, that have struggles I can scarcely imagine. Being a single parent isn't … [Read more...]

MAD Blog Awards Outstanding Blogger of the Year

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As some of you may know, my company organises the MAD Blog Awards for UK parent blogs. It's an increasingly big and complicated business - this year we received more than 60,000 nominations in three weeks for thousands of UK parent blogs, writing about everything from food to technology, politics and parenting. But my favourite thing about this year's awards is the new award we've launched celebrating outstanding members of the blogging community. MAD Blog Awards Outstanding … [Read more...]

Daisy Chaining. It’s all our fault, apparently.

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"Daisy chaining is a popular activity among kids today."  It's not every day someone says that, is it? So I was a little bit taken aback when Dr Tanya Byron told us about daisy chaining, as part of a keynote presentation at the Drinkaware Annual Conference last week, where I was a speaker along with Carrie from Mumsnet and child behaviour expert Eileen Hayes. And Tanya definitely wasn't talking about flowers. Don't Google it - especially if you're at work right now - but … [Read more...]

Dear Movie Fan…

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Here's the thing: I LOVE films. There's something magical to me about getting caught up in a story on film, especially in a darkened cinema, with the sound all around you, and nobody to interrupt you and break your concentration. TV box-sets are another guilty pleasure. I'm not picky when it comes to watching movies - my collection includes everything from French indie films to Gossip Girl downloads and Vampire Diaries box-sets. This weekend I sat in a packed-out cinema to see Les … [Read more...]