Motherly Mortification

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Flea is now 11. So it stands to reason that literally EVERYTHING I say and do is embarrassing these days.

“You don’t have to get out of the car at school, you know,” she says to me. Except on the days she’s feeling nervous, when I’m required to get out of the car.

I’m never sure which sort of a day it is, so on any given morning, I’m usually doing the wrong thing. I’m very much looking forward to next week, when she starts cycling to school herself.

But it’s all good. She’s growing up, and in a new environment, and I completely get that desire to fit in, to look like any other senior school kid.

I can still remember the mortification of my Dad’s habit of singing in the MIDDLE OF THE STREET while we were shopping.

Or that I was a pretty small 11 year old and I started senior school in a coat from Mothercare because Mum said I was too small to go to Chelsea Girl. It was a gaberdine raincoat and everyone said I looked like Inspector Gadget. I was called Gadget pretty much every day for the next five years.

Parents. Ugh.

So I wait in the car. I brush my hair, and wear something decent on the school run. I wait quietly while she’s doing hockey practice and don’t jump up and down shouting, “GOOD SAVE, CHILD OF MINE!!”

Not on the outside, at any rate.

Of course, like most things any parent thinks they’ve got completely sussed, eventually it’s all going to go horribly wrong.

Today, Flea needed to check on the timings of a match she’s playing in this weekend. It’s all a long, complicated story but basically we’re going away this weekend, we’ll need to nip home for the match, so I need to know where and when it is. So I asked her to call me from school with the information.

Kids’ phones have to be turned off at school, so she’d need to go into the office and call from there.

“Call me after morning registration and let me know!” I reminded Flea this morning (while sitting in the car and pretending I don’t exist, naturally).

Because of work, I missed Flea’s call. This led to the world’s most helpful voicemail ever. (“Hey Mum, it’s Flea, I was going to tell you the match times but you’re not there. So… call me back. Except my phone’s off. Bye!”)

Fortunately Flea called back at lunchtime, with the start time and location of the match. Flea wasn’t sure of the finishing time but I told her not to worry, we’d work that out later.

Okay, baby, I’ll see you later. Love you!” I said.

There was a long pause.

Silence.

“Are you still there, Flea?” 

“I. Just Had. The. Phone. On. Speaker.” my child croaked, in a very small voice.

Oh dear.

I think tonight might be one of the days when I need to stay in the car.

 

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Sally is a full-time blogger and founder of the Tots100, Trips100, Foodies100 and HIBS100 communities, along with the MAD Blog Awards. She spends a bit too much time on the Internet. She’s also a very happy Mum to Flea, the world’s coolest ten year old.

5 Comments

  1. 22nd September 2016 / 10:18 am

    ha ha, we’ve all done something like that. She sounds like she’s growing up fast. I still love my little man running up to me after school and giving me a big hug and a kiss, the other two don’t any more and I’m dreading it when he’s too cool to continue.
    Good luck for when she’s cycling to school, it’s going to be a whole new experience for both of you.
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  2. 22nd September 2016 / 11:45 pm

    Oh dear! I’m now panicking about becoming embarrassing mum! I’m also panicking that at some point in the future I’m going to have to put on something decent and brush my hair to do the school run. This hadn’t dawned on me at all until I read your post. Eek, I’ll have to get up earlier!
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  3. 23rd September 2016 / 11:14 am

    My daughter cheerfully reminds me on a regular basis how little time she has left at primary school – I dread the day of course. I don’t think any child gets through it without at least a little embarrassment, but we know that they’ll be glad to come home to mum (even if they don’t say so), however mortifying we have been earlier in the day!

  4. 28th September 2016 / 6:39 pm

    Oh no, mine are only 5 and 2 and reading stuff like this means I’m even more determined to kiss them SILLY until this fateful day finally arrives 🙁

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